Dear voicewriter:

It reads to me that you were an angry woman in the relationship with that man. You are angry. You were angry with him and that is why you broke up with him four times, to punish him. Then when he made changes, you continued with your anger tantrum, as if saying to him: “You made changes, huh? And you think it is enough for me? Oh, no, I am still angry with you!” You couldn’t get back the soft feeling you had for him because you were angry. Anger is a rough, hard feeling. Can’t experience the soft feelings when angry.

Underneath that anger, there was fear. Now that he is gone, so is your anger and what you are left with is the fear.

If you agree with what I wrote here, would you like to share about the nature of your fear then and now and your past anger?

anita