Dear Unavailable:

I was thinking of you when eating and had to write you again- if you didn’t write yet for me to not respond. I felt empathy for your pain in the last post and wish so much that I could help you. I am a stranger to you here, but I am absolutely honest with you as far as my understanding and my life experience. I was thinking, if there is someone wise you can talk to before you commit to her, someone older AND wiser you can talk to IN PERSON, maybe you can do that?

You hate feeling badly, don’t you? My interest is that you will not feel badly again and again after making a choice that will work against you.

I do not know your girlfriend, if she has what it takes, the courage, the persistence to work on her healing. Please do not get into a situation that is likely to drag you down day in and day out.

Please talk to someone, not just anyone before you make a final kind of move.

Write me more, or not; write me to not respond to you anymore, if you’d like.

Your best interest is on my mind:
anita