Dear TreenOfLane:

You wrote: “(you and your ex husband) consistently agreed not to discuss the reasons why of it (divorce) with our family members. I do know my daughter has repeatedly pressed both of us for this information and we simply tell her it’s our personal relationship business we choose not to share-no fingers need pointed. She’s always disappointed with this answer.”

Can you tell me why it is that you think it is none of your daughter’s business to know the reason of your divorce? Why is it a secret?

anita