Wow Anna, thanks for making an account for me! It sounds like you know exactly what you need to do…once your health is compromised like that, there is no way you can stay. It sounds like your partner is being supportive and very committed to staying with you when you are gone 🙂

I’m going to have a talk with mine today about all of this. I guess I havn’t gotten enough clarity from him on whether or not he wants to plan to make this work, or if hes just wanting to let go and move on once I move.
And also, there is no definite time frame of if he can move down there to be with me. I think he feels stuck up here, taking care of his parents, and who knows when he will feel like he can move and start his own life away from them.
I’m also going to ask him about possibly moving in together, as that was the plan at one time. I’m worried that also won’t solve my sadness of being up here….ALTHOUGH I know a large part of why I cant stand it here is because I cant stand my living situation with my roomates and house. I’m sure if that changed, perhaps my outlook on this area might change too, as I once really liked it here!