Hi Anita, and everyone else,

I am very grateful for the replies, for real.

Anita, in regards to your question, I was living in another town with my boyfriend, and ended up getting a job in my hometown, so I had to move back to my parents house. I had lost my job while living with him and had a hard time struggling to find another in the same city, as it is smaller and has less opportunities. Hometown is actually a big city.

Things started going bad 6 months after I was in the new job… boyfriend was putting a lot of pressure to move back. I wanted to but the pressure blew things off… I have so many regrets right now. I should have had more patience, I should have thought better, etc…