Dear Alicia1211:

What you wrote here sounds reasonable: friends first, absolutely, especially as future parents, work together for the benefit of the child and each other. The child needs to have a CALM home to grow up in, whether it is you alone or you and him. But you, your boyfriend living together and fighting- that would be very bad for your future child.

Hope you do become good friends. Often that is more than most couples have between themselves!

anita