Dear limbikanimaria:

You asked if that would be a deal breaker for some people: sure it would, for some people. For some people anything at all can be a deal breaker. So it would be up to you, of course, to break or not to break the deal

But what is the deal? Is the deal: be 100% honest at all times and watch out- be careful… think, think before you speak and after you speak… stop, was everything you said accurate? This would be a nightmarish deal.

Or is the deal about love, to love and be loved as imperfect as the two of you are?

is the … deal about making sure there are no lies or is it about making sure there is love there?

anita