Hi Kman,

At least you know NOW and not years down the line. It sounds like she is a changeable person and you are constant, so be happy the romance even happened at all!

Also, at the end of relationships, the dump-er often calls us to see how we “are”. She is still attached to you on some level, but wants that feeling of control.

I would go to Madrid, and let her know, “Hey, I’m here.” Even meet up with her (if you’d want to). But do NOT take her back. It sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do. But DO send her Mom the gift.

Blessings,

Inky