Hi Anita,
You are correct on many levels. Telling him, though…I hesitate to do that. It would shatter his world in a million pieces. I would have to think long & hard before doing that. I shall update you on what happens…I am really taking this time to figure out what I should do.
It may be taken out of my hands- after confessing I have feelings for the other guy, he might just decide to cancel. Or weather might affect travel plans, who knows?

Thank you kindly, Anita, for taking the time to help. I promise to come back and update things 🙂 Thank you.