Dear Kman:

I think you felt elated when you posted the above and i can see why: in this exchange she did not appear angry or upset, but light and happy and even affectionate in using the nickname she called you before you broke up as well as bringing up positive enough memories of the time you two spent together.

My impression from your posts and the two exchanges is that she is moody, changing while you are pretty stable. You consistently try to be positive, encouraging, loving in your communication with her while she sometimes responds in kind and sometimes she is very angry, suspicious and … unpleasant. Maybe she likes to travel and is happy when traveling and when she is about to travel and the last exchange is before her next travel. This would explain why she was in a good mood through much of the time she spent with you, because much of it was traveling, to Dubai, to Venice..

Be cautious about your elation. is it not up and down with her, ever since the beginning- isn’t she changeable, from happy and even affectionate to angry?

anita