Anita- I feel that what if he really does change and will not lie to me anymore then we could be good and back to how it was at the start- if I gave him this chance, there are good things about him… I suppose I want it to work, so against everything else that’s wrong I am still hoping- I feel if I ended it would I always regret it?

Thanks Aislynn, sorry to hear about all the troubles you had- my worry is also that now he will just be more careful and hide things from me. I agree with everything your saying too- when you went through it with your previous partner what made you make the decision to finally end it?

Everything points to him being a liar and unsuitable for me, but I can’t help but think what if he really is trying now and really is being honest with me? Thing is I will never really know unless I trust him and right now I don’t, but I wonder if in time the trust could come back?