Hi dreaming715,

So many things:

1. When I hear “doctor”, “medical school” or “residency” those things are NOT compatible with a relationship. They genuinely are too busy and their minds are elsewhere.

2. The guy doesn’t text/call/see you, goes out of the country and expects you to be waiting around? Are you a lady in waiting? NO! Of course some other dude is going to find you! What did the man expect?? NO need to apologize. NONE!

3. He’s leaving his stuff at your house and you can’t even get rid of it! This tells me:
A) That he’s marking his territory
B) That it’s not over until he says it’s over and
C) That the stuff represents HIM! You can’t even contact him to make a firm date!!

4. Tell him that if he doesn’t make a firm date to pick up your stuff that you will leave it on the curb at 8 AM (rush hour) on a certain date for him to get it. And in your text take back your apology. Say that you were RIGHT about dating other guys.

Good Luck!

Inky

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