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  • February 15, 2016 at 12:46 am #96052
    martin
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    I have been in a relationship for about 1 and a half years and has been the best moment in my life. We are Kenyans and come from a different community. I feel it has reached a point in these relationship to introduce her to my family members but my dad doesn’t like the idea and doesn’t want me to marry from that community. Am forced to let the girl go because have tried my best to convince my parents to accept her as she is but they can’t change. I have talked to her about the issue and she insist we just move forward without there decision. I want to but respect to my parents is key and blessing our marriage would be fundamental.PLease help me guys.

    February 15, 2016 at 5:13 am #96054
    Inky
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    Hi martin,

    As a parent I would appreciate my child wanting to get my blessing ~ you are a good son! But as a citizen of the modern age you know I will tell you to marry the girl. Your parents will have to get over it. Unless you are very young and they support you financially, you really should follow your heart.

    In laws have clashed with their new sons and daughters in law all over the world since the beginning of time. Even if they hand picked your bride for you they would still clash. I would marry her and have them meet her during or after the ceremony. The visit should be short and she should be very polite so they have nothing to complain about.

    Then later, when you give them their first grandchild, they should be happy.

    Blessings,

    Inky

    • This reply was modified 8 years, 10 months ago by Inky.
    February 15, 2016 at 7:40 am #96058
    Anonymous
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    Dear martin:

    Can you think of and detail here the consequences you are afraid of if you do marry the girl against your parents’ wishes? What will be the consequences, what will actually happen to you?

    anita

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