Dear Andy:

I understand that it hurts. It hurts because you lost something that was very valuable to you, her time, her attention, her physical intimacy.

I don’t know the details and dynamics of the relationship you had with her. I am sure both of you didn’t always operate effectively. As in any relationship that is voluntary, you are 50% responsible for the results and she is 50% responsible. Not only you, both of you, equally are responsible for the fact that this relationship started, went on and is now over.

Please post here anytime, express your feelings… how it feels. This hurt and sadness needs a voice, or a typing hand.

anita