Hey Anyone,

I don’t have the experience, so hopefully someone with experience or better insight then my own will come around soon. I’m just going to give my suggestion based on my own thoughts and feelings.

Since it has happened suddenly, I’m unable to accept that someone whom I knew as a colleague feels so much for me. Also, I want to take the next relation at a slow pace and understand the person well before committing.

Your right, everything has moved incredibly quickly. One must question why after two years has he just said something recently? Personally, someone with such strong feelings and yet couldn’t express them doesn’t seem like he is going to be the most emotional available person. Until you understand why he feels so much for you besides the; ‘you’re intelligent’ ‘you’re beautiful’ ‘i’m nothing without you’ then i would proceed with caution. It might be he is more invested in you than you are with him. And if you’re not ready, then you’re not ready. Don’t push yourself to change for someone simply to fit into their agenda/ timeline.

Doesn’t give me time and space to think and answer, bossy attitude, brags about a lot of things about himself

In two months, you have already found three things that you dislike about your partner. You can’t change the makeup of someone. You can improve someone and influence them, but you cannot change someone unless they really want to. So far, all he says is ‘sorry’ which to me means he isn’t changing like he said he would try.

Follow your heart/ gut (whichever you like more 😉 ask yourself:
Why wasn’t he a friend before?
What do you like about him?
Do I like him only because he likes/ loves you?
Do i even want to be married?
What is our future? Do we have a future?

You don’t have to reply, these are more for you to reflect upon. If you want to ask a question please post again.

Sincerely,
Matty