Dear cath:

Only yesterday, after reading a comment you wrote elsewhere, I thought about bringing back this very thread and say hello to you, and the next day (today)- you did!

I am glad you’ve done a lot of progress so far! It is good when what you knew in your gut matches what you now know in your head (emotional understanding matching your intellectual understanding, so no conflict there).

So many people though (think about it if you haven’t so far…) keep living in a lie so to protect themselves from what they know to be true in their gut. They keep lying to themselves about their relationship so to … feel better. But there is always a heavy price for not facing up to the truth of a situation. Best to see it as it is, see what is for what it is, not for what we wished it was… no tricking one’s mind without a heavy price to pay.

Please do bring up this thread anytime you want to say hello and chat!

anita