Dear christy:

I read your two line update. So no explaining why he disappeared. He said he wanted you in his life- was it an answer to a question you asked him, for ex.: “Do you want me in your life?”

So, him coming in and out of your life at will, no explanations… that makes you relatively comfortable because it is not too good to be true. If something is too good to be true, then it would be a matter of time before your hope turns into despair. This way, getting the crumbs off the table, so to speak, makes you relatively comfortable. You get some food, be it crumbs and you know your place…?

anita