Number one… U want to leave him for that guy..accept it.
U find ur needs hetter satisfied there…and now lookin at his background for suitable justification in the past.

Numeber two.. Your guy was unhappy due to his own unresolved issues..unachieved goals or self worth…and it generally made him feel unhappy..nw he is happy..and so things are fine.

Now see what u want..if u cn wotk and recreate old highs wid the first guy..go fr him coz u kno him better and he knows ur imperfections.

Number 3 second guy is ur necessary escape from gloom.. Attention and importance pulled u. Go deep and understand ur true feelings wid him..
Get a crude one word answer.

Take the choice.

Thanks.