Dear Ravi:

Second quote from page one: “I am very protective of those I love. Like, protective to insane levels. I see insults against them everywhere, even when not intended. Another incident: in that TV show forum, we had once tried holding a birthday celebration of my favourite actor together with a veteran actor… I posted there, ‘According to you people, is she a dirty *censored* and not even fit to be called a human being?’…

Again: your grandmother projected into the people criticizing your favorite actor. You were saying to your grandmother, really: according to you, nobody is fit (for me to befriend…Your disproportional to-the-situation at hand anger, what you called “exaggerated anger” is fueled by the anger you have at being controlled by your grandmother (mostly, there are issues with your parents, but your grandmother is most dominant in your life… and theirs).

anita