Dear Musicmaker614:

If you and your boyfriend have it in you, capable and willing to be good parents, then I hope you do have a child. If the two of you focus on this goal… how can it not happen? Put your brains together… I don’t know what country you live in. I wonder if taking care of a child as a foster parent could work for you, being paid for taking care of a child who was separated from an abusive household? Just an idea. Won’t be a biological child but a child nonetheless.

anita