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Posts by Amanda Scully

Amanda is an English teacher, Montessori teacher, counselor, writer, and creator of the blog Claiming Life exploring themes of self-love, empowerment, and living authentically. After experiencing the loss of three family members, she draws from her journey to help others reclaim their strength and love for life.

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From Pain to Power: Letting Go of Approval to Love Myself

“If you love yourself, it doesn’t matter if other people like you because you don’t need their approval to feel good about yourself.” ~Lori Deschene

For most of my life, I worried about what others thought. Every move I made felt like a performance for someone else. I’d built my life on their approval.

Then came the losses. Three family members were gone in a matter of years. Each time, the grief hit like a fist to the gut.

My mother was my pillar of strength; my father, who might not have always been there for me but was still …