Posts by Deze Oh

Deze Oh is passionate about sharing coping strategies and life lessons from her journey with recurrent pregnancy loss. She does so at miscarriagemommy.com. She’s obsessed with emboldening women with what it takes to live well when when times are tough and when they’re not. You can find her thoughts on living positively, being productive, planning and creating an enjoyable home at byDeze.com.

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The Many Shades of Support: Everyone Shows Up for Us in Different Ways


“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of ‘You’re not alone.’” ~Brené Brown

What do a pregnancy test, a wheelchair, and an Airbnb have in common? The answer is this story.

In February 2019, one night before I was to get on a flight for my first ever trip to Paris, with my sister and best friend, I took a pregnancy test and it read… positive.

Excited? Worried? Anxious? I was all of the above.

You see, …