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Eloise Tomkins is a trained psychologist who has moved into the Executive Coaching space. She is passionate about empowering entrepreneurial women to lead from within so they can evolve to a 7 figure mindset so they can amplify their impact on the world and make their bank balance boom. You can find out more by visiting her website at www.eloisetomkins.com or on Insta @eloisetomkins_

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How I Stopped Being Everything I Hated About My Parents

“The beautiful thing about life is that you always change, grow, and get better. You aren’t defined by your past. You aren’t your mistakes.” ~Unknown

When I was an angsty fourteen-year-old, I remember screaming at my parents that I never (ever!) wanted to become like either of them. And I meant it.

My dad was a workaholic who was never at home. When he was at home, he was emotionally unavailable, arguing with my mother, or he’d escape the stress of our house by going to the betting shop to gamble.

My mother had erratic mood swings, did not allow …