Posts by Justine Mfulama

Justine Mfulama is a dating and relationship coach that helps Millennial single women take their relationships from casual to committed while dating with confidence and joy. Over at justinemfulama.com she shares her personal experiences, combined with years of research about everything dating, relationship and faith.

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How to Create Happiness Outside of a Relationship and Enjoy More of Your Life

“Remember, being happy doesn’t mean you have it all. It simply means you’re thankful for all you have.” ~Unknown

For many years I was single. But I wasn’t just a regular single, I was a miserable one.

Rather than enjoying a time in my life when I didn’t have to care about anyone else but myself and using it to devote my full attention to my purpose and passions, I chose to ride the “woe is me” train.

I would complain about being single daily and covet other women’s “luck” in dating. I would blame every guy I dated …