Posts by Lana Otoya

Lana Is a professional dating coach. She started her career as a dating writer and matchmaker where she worked with mostly male clients. They taught her all about what successful men look for in a dream woman. She now helps confident and successful women meet confident and successful men. Visit her at Millennialships.com.

Lana Otoya's Website

Why Long-Term Love Feels Boring and Why It’s Actually Not

“It’s not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean.” ~Tony Robbins


The sound of my fiancé’s alarm went off at 5:00 in the morning. I had fallen asleep around 2am after scrolling for hours on Instagram and Pinterest.

Frustrated, I rolled into my pillow as he leaned over to give me a kiss on the forehead.

I grimaced.

Why does he always have to kiss me every morning when I’m tired.

Resentment is an odd feeling.

“Here we go again,” I thought to myself, “another boring Monday …