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Stacy is a student of energy. As a Certified Law of Attraction Life Coach, she guides you how to shift your energy and awaken your inner muse to create the life of your desires. You can read Stacy’s newsletters and find out more about her services at InvisibleMuse.com.

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Focus on Yourself Instead of Trying to Change Someone Else

“If you can’t change the circumstances, change your perspective.” ~Unknown

I was the one who was the designated driver in high school and college. I wanted to be in control of how I arrived and left a party. Besides, the taste of alcohol did not please, so it was a win-win situation in my mind.

Then, a decade later, I found myself dating someone who was addicted to drugs. I thought if he could just hang around me, see how I found joy without being altered by substances and bask in my love, then he could stay sober.

In the …