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  • in reply to: Betrayed by my wife #170169
    aj
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    Hey Carl,

    I know this comes a little late and probably by now your wife must have met the man, I hope things have changed and you guys are still together. I think you already have got some good replies from this community but on top of that I really want you to read this book called ‘Rational Male’. It’ll help you in understanding the emotional aspects of you marriage, your wife and yourself as well. No harm in looking it up. I really hope that your kids are coping up well in all this mess. Stay strong brother. God bless you.

    AJ

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 3 months ago by aj.
    in reply to: Friends post relationship #169889
    aj
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    I am just gonna say this in the briefest way possible for me Steven : Get out of this ASAP

    This does not look good from any angle. Yes, all those feelings of love that were(or are) there due to all the moments that happened (in the past) between you too makes it extremely difficult, but just leave this thing. It will be hard (as you already are experiencing) but trust me, once you start taking steps, slowly you’ll realize it was the better choice. Moving on is the hardest part and it is scary but there is one more thing which even more painful and scary and that is REGRET. Don’t waste your time on this relationship anymore, learn from it and move on. If you do decide to move on I suggest you go a for a no-contact period for some time.  However keep your emotions aside when deciding and be a bit more objective and see what kind of behaviors she is displaying instead of what she is saying. Actions tell everything. Don’t go by words alone…just don’t.

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