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  • September 27, 2019 at 4:01 pm #314777
    Austin
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    Hi Anita,

    Yes, that does sound like a reasonable plan. I will definitely look for someone new. Hopefully I will meet the next person very soon haha.

    The only problem is since she unfriended me she blocked me on social media. So it would be hard to contact her in the future.. If in the future I still want to contact her I guess I will ask a friend to do so or I can make another account to message her with.

    But yes, I do hope I can meet someone new and forget about her as well.

    September 27, 2019 at 2:12 pm #314765
    Austin
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    Hi Peggy,

    Thank you so much for your reply. Yes.. I am trying my best to accept that our relationship had to end so poorly. haha I hope to meet someone new soon as well. If she ever changes her mind, I will always be willing to try a friendship again.

    I have been feeling less guilty now. I see that yes, there are things that I could have done better. But at same time there were things she could have done better as well. I think it was just we became “friends” way too soon after the break up and it ended up very messy. And we probably had a very different idea on what our friendship would be like in the end.

    I will still always treasure our good memories that we had, and  I will learn from the mistakes that I made when things went bad.

    September 27, 2019 at 2:06 pm #314761
    Austin
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    Hi Anita,

    Yes, I think if I can go back in time I would try to continue a long distance relationship with her.

    If I can’t go back in time that far, I would have changed the way we interacted during our “friendship”. I would probably have told her that we should have absolutely no contact for a long time after our breakup before we attempt a friendship.

    September 27, 2019 at 8:49 am #314665
    Austin
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    Thank you for your reply again Anita. I deleted all our conversations. But it is usually just casual conversations, for example “how are you? today I passed my driving license exam!!” or “omg today at work this and this happened” Basically stuff like this. Just trying to have a conversation with her.

    I am/was hoping to be close friends with her. Yes, I need to get over my romantic emotions over her first for sure.. I guess I am finding this very hard to accept.. that we were once so good.  And things didn’t need to end this badly but it did. And knowing that fact hurts so much.  🙁

    September 26, 2019 at 4:56 pm #314513
    Austin
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    Hello Anita,

    Thank you for your reply. Before breaking up with her we were in a very good relationship. We loved each other very much and almost never got into any arguments. Leaving the country was definitely the main reason for the break up.

    I forgot to say that our “friendship” lasted a total of 6 months before she decided to block me completely. The last 4 months is when she became more and more cold to me and started to say that I am annoying her etc. Sigh.. I think we both could have done things better. But i still can’t stop blaming myself and feel like this is mainly my fault.

    Yes, I was so naive thinking becoming friends right after a break up would be easy. I did not think it would become this messy. I was wondering if there was any way to fix all of this and for us to talk again, and maybe try becoming friends again.

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