Dear Annie, I totally agree with Lori on this. From what i read this guy isn’t ready to be in a relationship with you so why do you want to be? Dear I know how you feel because I’ve been in similar situation and trust me it is not easy to just let go and move on but you’ve got to be strong and do it. He is not your man sis. Don’t be too hard on yourself and forgive yourself first cos that is the first step to healing your wounds. Try as much as possible to avoid him if seeing him makes you uncomfortable and if by chance you meet please avoid the temptation to talk about having him back. With time I know you will heal and get someone more matured and loving than him, although there are no perfect guys out, u deserve the best….love