Not really there’s things on those links to help but its not real help to get out of a relationship.

Yes. I have talked to some holiness but all they can do is give you resource links. I have mostly forgotten about Jake because he used me basically. But I do think about him from time to time.

Not but the ghosting makes you feel like that. Theres no way to know what went through his head. The only one who knows is Jake and he dissappeared.

He’s probably forgotten about it. No answers really sucks. I still get to be 1 out of 258 friends in his facebook. He may have cared at the cared on that day. But he probably dosent care now and got what he wanted.

Still cantstop thinking of Jake it sucks to be ghosted. It makes you think all sorts of things, but it makes me think of Jake. I often now prefer to think of him rather then how my partner treats me. I feel like my partner is not for me and he isnt going to change. Its always going to be the same thing over and over. I wish I had backed out when I had the chance instead of staying. I didnt know it wouldnt get any better. Jake showed me something but he dissappeared. Not sure what happened that day,only one who does went silent. Why let him show up in my life if he wasnt gonna stay. Is it still not the right time or not meant to be at all.

Whether there was something there or he was just looking to gain enough trust.

He still encouraged me and still showed me something. He is clearly not ready or something. I wish this never happened but it did. I dont really regret what happened.

Thank you for your replies.

I dont know
I just feel like this isnt it and I want something else.

Im not even sure if he knows he does that at all.
Im in agreement with my dad who thinks. His attitude and behaviors feel like. Bipolar Disorder rather then what his mom said he was diagnosed with as a kid. Which is Disassociative Identity Disorder. DID is where you switch between different personalities. But it seems like he has highs and lows instead. Switching between being mean and then apologizing. If he says something mean or starts something he might apologize later. I didnt know before we got married and moved out. This is both our first place together and his parents moved 2 hrs away.

Jake I guess might be both a lesson and a what if. I know he wants someone to stick with him and enjoy life with. But if he isnt ready emotional and mentally then he might not find the forever girl for him. I really like Jake.