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December 13, 2025 at 5:49 pm #452946
AdalieParticipantIts my fault for meeting up with him and letting something happen. He kept me there this whole time until now. Kinda stupid that im hurt by being unfriended. Dosent help that my husband also said hurtful unkind things this morning. But this is hurting me more. There was never a relationship there just one day and no communication. I didn’t matter enough
December 13, 2025 at 3:44 pm #452939
AdalieParticipantJake has unfriended me on Facebook. It makes me sad and it hurts my heart and it shouldn’t. But it does it makes me feel like I dont matter or never did. I was on his Facabook the whole time till just now. Maybe for the best.
December 13, 2025 at 3:39 pm #452938
AdalieParticipantJake unfriended me on Facebook and it hurts a lot even though it shouldn’t. It just makes me really sad like i dont matter.
November 16, 2025 at 12:55 am #451845
AdalieParticipantNot really there’s things on those links to help but its not real help to get out of a relationship.
November 15, 2025 at 7:44 am #451821
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November 14, 2025 at 10:18 pm #451814
AdalieParticipantYes. I have talked to some holiness but all they can do is give you resource links. I have mostly forgotten about Jake because he used me basically. But I do think about him from time to time.
November 14, 2025 at 8:52 pm #451811
AdalieParticipantIm okay but I want out of my relationship.
October 22, 2025 at 4:13 pm #451160
AdalieParticipantNot but the ghosting makes you feel like that. Theres no way to know what went through his head. The only one who knows is Jake and he dissappeared.
October 21, 2025 at 8:37 am #451129
AdalieParticipantOnly a few times but I quit cuz I didnt wanna bother him.
October 20, 2025 at 5:09 pm #451099
AdalieParticipantHe’s probably forgotten about it. No answers really sucks. I still get to be 1 out of 258 friends in his facebook. He may have cared at the cared on that day. But he probably dosent care now and got what he wanted.
October 20, 2025 at 11:40 am #451091
AdalieParticipantIt is pretty done at least on my side. I have debt and no where to go. So im kinda stuck with Vince my partner and my brain is stuck on Jake. I dont know what happened still from that night. Having no answers and no communication sucks.
October 18, 2025 at 8:32 pm #451051
AdalieParticipantStill cantstop thinking of Jake it sucks to be ghosted. It makes you think all sorts of things, but it makes me think of Jake. I often now prefer to think of him rather then how my partner treats me. I feel like my partner is not for me and he isnt going to change. Its always going to be the same thing over and over. I wish I had backed out when I had the chance instead of staying. I didnt know it wouldnt get any better. Jake showed me something but he dissappeared. Not sure what happened that day,only one who does went silent. Why let him show up in my life if he wasnt gonna stay. Is it still not the right time or not meant to be at all.
August 11, 2025 at 2:08 pm #448462
AdalieParticipantJust feel very unwanted
August 11, 2025 at 8:50 am #448446
AdalieParticipantWhether there was something there or he was just looking to gain enough trust.
He still encouraged me and still showed me something. He is clearly not ready or something. I wish this never happened but it did. I dont really regret what happened.
Thank you for your replies.
August 10, 2025 at 8:24 pm #448428
AdalieParticipantDosent matter what I want or deserve. Jake got what he wanted and its my fault if im hurt I did it to myself. Hes never coming back and probably had a plan to get me to trust him. Share enough and care enough to get what he wanted.
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