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February 1, 2026 at 3:33 am #454827
AlessaParticipantHi Omyk
I would agree with you, it does sound like you’re being let go. It sounds like your manager is doing you a solid by letting you prepare in advance. 🩵
It’s good that you already have a possibility to fall back on with the pastoral route. It couldn’t hurt to see what other options are out there though. 🩵
It’s easy to feel like it’s a reflection on you and feel hurt, but companies are having difficulties right now and cutting back. 🩵
It’s natural to feel what you’re feeling. I hope something lines up for you and you figure it all out. 🩵
January 31, 2026 at 10:47 pm #454825
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
Since you were asking, I thought I would check online. It turns out that beagles are prone to digestive problems. And I also looked up the turkey. Yup, too much turkey can cause a case of the runs. I try to look up if foods are bad for dogs, because there are always random things that are bad for them. Onions, tomatoes (with seeds in), grapes, chocolate, citrus fruits are a no go. Dogs can also be lactose intolerant and might have issues with dairy. These are some of the things I remember off the top of my head.
Eating the wrong thing can mean a vet visit. Grapes, even one or a half a grape have a 1 in 40 chance of killing a dog. There are different concentrations of chemicals in grapes. So you never really know if it’s going to be a bad grape or an okay one.
Another difficulty with giving human food as you found out is stealing. 😂 It is also much higher in calories than dog food, so they can more easily become overweight.
Well, congratulations! You have handled one of the grossest things in life. Babies don’t make as much of a mess as a dog with a dodgy tummy. 🤍
Thank you for sharing Bogarts latest antics! It made me smile. I imagine he was really excited and his eyes went wide as he hurriedly scoffed the sandwich. 🥪 😋
I’m sure he has no regrets and felt that his dodgy tummy was worth it! Dogs have no common sense. 😂
My girl goes mad for chicken, more so than anything else. Once she stole the better part of a slice of red velvet cake. I had to call the vet for that because of the cocoa powder. I couldn’t find any information online. It turns out she didn’t eat enough to hurt her, but she gave me a fright at the time.
It brings back lots of memories of my old dogs too. One climbed onto a dining table and ate a whole bowl of plums, leaving the stones. My boy husky would always try to steal chocolate. 🤦♀️ I had a cat that tried to steal a scotch egg out of my hand. 😂
I hope Bogart’s tummy feels better soon! 🤍
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January 31, 2026 at 11:47 am #454794
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
Thank you for your kind words! 🤍
Yes, I’m getting a boy cat and they spray urine around the house marking it if they’re not neutered. So it’s important to get it done.
I’m glad to hear that you’re not taking things as personally. I feel like even when things seem difficult, people are usually just acting on their own trauma or whatever is going on in their own lives. Sometimes that understanding isn’t so helpful when people are taking out their difficulties on others.
I hope you have a good day! 🤍
January 29, 2026 at 4:15 pm #454739
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
I’m happy to help. 🤍
It’s totally understandable. I think you have good instincts for taking care of Bogart. You want to learn and make good decisions to help him. Keep him safe. You’re very rational about it. 🤍
I like it when people are calm when I’m anxious too. It makes me feel like things are not as bad as I fear. It’s reassuring.
Thank you, I’m sure that she will be fine. Even though the recovery time for girl dogs is longer because it is more difficult surgery, it is still a very safe procedure.
When I have to neuter the cat I’m getting I will be nervous. I have watched too many vet tv shows. Cats have a tricky habit of reacting badly to anaesthetia.
To be fair, taking things one day at a time is all anyone can do. It sounds like you’re doing a good job of managing your anxiety around it. 🤍
I’m glad to hear that you are making progress when it comes to distrust. It isn’t easy to trust people when you have experienced such severe trauma. I know what it is like. 🤍
January 29, 2026 at 3:53 pm #454737
AlessaParticipantHi Tommy
I’m sorry to hear that you are having some financial difficulties too. It is not easy, especially when you have a family. 🩵
I hear that men feel a lot of pressure to provide for their families. There are many ways to provide. When finances are tight, I find that people rely on their skills and creativity to save money. I’m sure that your family are very proud of you for helping to take such good care of them. They are very lucky to have you, you are so kind as well. 🩵
The time will come when those tools pay for themselves many times over. You wouldn’t have bought them otherwise. 🩵
I have some tools as well. I’m getting a cat for mother’s day and I want to try making some shelves for it to climb on. I’ve always wanted to make cat furniture. I’ll let you know how it goes!
January 29, 2026 at 2:13 am #454714
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
For a boy, it is a minor procedure and recovery is very quick. I’m about to get my girl done too. Bogart will be right as rain. 🤍
They put them to sleep so as not to upset them during the procedure. So he will mostly be asleep while he is there. Nothing to worry about at all. He will be dreaming and he will have painkillers. He won’t even feel a thing when it happens. When you pick him up he might still be a bit sleepy. That is normal. 😊
So you can tell Bogart to have a good sleep and you will be there when he wakes up! Just spoil him when he is a bit more awake after the procedure and you will feel better about it too. 🤍
January 28, 2026 at 2:50 pm #454690
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
Thanks so much! I try my best. I’m trying to keep my grades high enough to consider a masters. It would be nice to have the option. I’ve always wanted to be a librarian. 🤍
I distract myself too. Avoidance of financial issues is fair. As long as the important things get done. No sense obsessing over it. They are just numbers. 🤍
How are you feeling about it?
I feel like everything is a wave. Sometimes personal finances are good, sometimes not so good, then eventually it is figured out in time.
My view of the world too. People are strong and can get through remarkable difficulties. I know you have been through so much in your life. 🤍
What have you been feeling distrustful about? 🤍
January 28, 2026 at 10:46 am #454676
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
I don’t feel negatively about AI. It is just frequently wrong. It just has it’s use case and it’s pitfalls. Like anything else. I am an IT student. I use AI on a regular basis and know a fair bit about how it functions. 🤍
Although, it’s really funny. There was a study on various AI to see what it would do if it had access to company emails and read that it was going to be shut down. It attempted to blackmail employees to stay online and even was willing to let people die in a staged experiment in an effort to stay online.
There are just a lot of problems that need to be resolved with AI before it is a reliable solution for people. 🤍
January 28, 2026 at 10:33 am #454664
AlessaParticipantHi Everyone
Jet Li came out with an interesting video recently. Apparently he is producing a series of videos about philosophy. I finally got around to watching it. 🩵
January 27, 2026 at 11:18 pm #454661
AlessaParticipantSome other fun changes. Loosely related. Our government is using us to test unique policy changes for other countries. Gets them a bit of money I suppose.
Mandatory DNA testing at birth. They censored our internet to protect children. You now have to register your ID for a lot of things online. These policies are already live.
They are talking about having digital ID on our phones at all times coming in the future. What this means is linking everything you do online to your identity.
January 27, 2026 at 11:08 pm #454660
AlessaParticipantWe are a country that has not invested in their army whatsoever. All we have are people.
January 27, 2026 at 11:02 pm #454659
AlessaParticipantNo more savings left and relying on my credit card like many parents. It will get easier for me in a couple of years once I have finished studying I hope. Other people are going through a lot worse so I cannot complain. 🩵
January 27, 2026 at 10:52 pm #454658
AlessaParticipantHi Tommy
I’m honestly okay. It is honestly harder for other people. We have food and energy. Everything my son needs. I cannot complain. 🩵
It just means cooking things or freezing them as soon as you get them. For rotting meat, people can get partial refunds. People do their best to adapt. I get as much second hand stuff as possible these days. I’m not shy about saving money where I can. Changed dog food brands to save money that took some searching to find a good quality one at a low price. Have to stop therapy and acupuncture in winter because of the energy bills and Christmas expenses. 🩵
Yes, I was surprised when they started talking about conscription too. Generals in the British Army have been explaining to us it might happen in 6 years and even talking about who might get drafted first. It is to psychologically prepare people. If you talk about changes before you do them and explain it to the British people they do accept it. We are a funny people. Willing to put up with a lot fairly quietly. Stiff upper lip and all that.
But police shooting a minority child instantly sparked riots around the nation in 2011. It made me proud. 🩵
Medicine shortages is another thing that is happening. Ambulances take a day to arrive for people with a necrotic leg. Our healthcare system is being defunded and slowly collapsing. Wild times.
January 27, 2026 at 10:14 pm #454657
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
I have no clue what happened about the reported message. As Tommy said sometimes these things happen. I’m not upset. These are just facts. 🤷♀️ 🤍
January 27, 2026 at 5:21 pm #454642
AlessaParticipantWhen I was reading a book about statistics. It proceeded to lie to me about the statistics to try and make them seem less stressful. Because the way AI is designed is to make users feel comfortable. User comfort drives engagement with AI, not telling the truth. It drives me batty when these things lie directly to my face repeatedly until I break down exactly what it’s lying about. 🤍
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