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AlessaParticipantDear Anita
It’s honestly okay. Please don’t worry. 😊 🤍 I’m glad that it was just that. I worried that I might have offended you with advice about recall training. 🤍
Is the not feeling like writing a good thing or not at the moment? 🤍
It is hard for me to explore some things as a parent because I’m just dealing with so many other things.
Today has been a unique day. My son has been very irritable and not wanting to eat his breakfast. Took ages to coax him to finally eat something. He was hysterical poor thing. Then after eating he didn’t want to nap. He’s not having the best day so far.
How is your weekend going? 🤍
AlessaParticipantHi Tommy
But isn’t cutting the national deficit impossible? It’s an issue faced by many western countries. I heard that the national deficit for economies already impacted is predicted to only exponentially increase. 🩵
I guess the UK is a testing pot right now as our deficit is the largest of any western country. I don’t know all of this is going to affect us.
I heard that it is very difficult to make changes to policies because they are set by the wealthy who are propping up the country. One solution proposed is to increase taxed on the ultra-rich. Of course, the ultra wealthy aren’t going to go for that. Some countries are already testing playing with the wealth taxation.
The BRICS thing is fascinating. I can’t complain too much. I didn’t realise that since world war 2 money transfers across the world have to be pushed through the American economy first. I hear that this is particularly devastating for developing countries since borrowing is based on USD and when the USD fluctuates they are left with massive amounts of debt. I guess it is a levelling of the playing field. The world is uncertain and tensions are growing. 🩵
Interesting! We don’t have fire hydrants in the UK. We just have grates that they lift up on the ground that allow the fire engines to connect to water supplies. I expect pipelines are a universal problem. When I lived in a small town by the countryside we had dark water during summer sometimes. Our water supply was being contaminated by local farmers. 🩵
Thanks so much for the advice and the well wishes. I’m feeling better now! Take care, thinking of you and your family. 🩵
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
Thanks so much! I’m feeling better. 😊 How are you doing? You’ve been quiet recently? 🤍
AlessaParticipantHi Tommy
Please don’t worry! 🩵 You’re perfectly fine. 😄 I’ve just not recovered from that bug yet. I have asthma and it got into my lungs, turned into a chest infection and filled them with fluid. So I’ve been a bit down in the dumps. It’s slowly starting to improve a bit now. 🩵
I think the filter is a great idea. I might look on YouTube about fitting one. I grew up in a hard water area where we would use a filtration jug. But a filter under the sink would be less hassle if it’s not hard to fit. 🩵
I’m afraid I don’t know much about the economy. I know that things are not in a good way for the UK though. Brexit and COVID devastated our economy. It’s like two hits in a short span of time.
What are BRICS? That doesn’t sound good at all… 🩵
AlessaParticipantI hope you and your family have a wonderful year too! 🩵
AlessaParticipantHi Tommy
Thanks for thinking of us. 😊 Fortunately, we are in an area with good quality soft water. No limescale or anything. I guess the main thing to worry about these days is microplastics. I really should get a water filter. I keep meaning to, but I’ve not gotten around to it yet. 🩵
AlessaParticipantHi Sonia
The only way through the darkness, is to go through it. Emotions can be painful, but they aren’t inherently dangerous. It is hard work, but you come out of it stronger. 🩵
Well done on setting boundaries even though it makes you anxious. 🩵
I hope you have a much lighter year ahead of you with less worries, more freedom and joy. 🩵
AlessaParticipantHi Sonia
The difficulty with taking care of others is that they don’t develop the ability to take care of themselves. People need to be given the chance to fail.
Your happiness is just as important as his. It is your responsibility to take care of yourself, just as it is his responsibility to take care of himself. 🩵
You haven’t caused his issues, he had them long before he met you.
If you do your best to take care of yourself, you can be a role model for him to do the same. A different kind of helping. A new chapter for you both. 🩵
AlessaParticipantHi Anita, Roberta and Tommy
Thanks so much everyone! 🩵 🤍
It is okay, Tommy. I think it’s good advice. 😊 I take things too literally sometimes. It makes sense to exaggerate his existing symptoms. 🩵
All is well that ends well! 🩵 🤍
January 18, 2026 at 1:36 pm in reply to: I’m gonna use a Portable DVD Player instead of using streaming services. #454287
AlessaParticipantHi Ivy
It’s nice to see you around again! A portable dvd player sounds like a great idea. 😁
I just got my son a cd player. He loves it! 🩵
Hmm what are your favourite movies and shows? I’m not sure if you’ve already seen some of the things I would recommend?
Howl’s Moving Castle is a classic! I will keep thinking of other ideas. There is a comedy tv show I enjoy called Red Dwarf. It’s not a cartoon though. It’s loosely sci-fi themed. 🩵
AlessaParticipantHi Anita, Tee and Tommy
Thank you all for the well wishes. 🩵 🤍
He’s definitely feeling better today. He walked around the house and played with his toys. It made me so happy to see him more like his usual self. He’s definitely out of the woods now. 🩵 🤍
Haha I’m not brave enough to try that one Tommy! 😂
Yes, Anita that was what the doctor said he had!
Yes, Tee it was all very frightening. Apparently kids his age can go for 2 weeks without eating much just fine according to the doctor. I didn’t realize.
I have a migraine, so I’m going to keep this one short. Speak soon! 🩵 🤍
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
You are doing a really good job taking care of little Anita. 🤍
Yes, an important realisation. How does it feel knowing that none of it was your fault? Has it started to sink into understanding from logic to belief or emotion yet? Whatever you are experiencing is okay. I find that these things evolve over time. 🤍
Well, the job of beagles on hunts is to go off lead and hunt rabbits. Of course bring the rabbit back. So it’s possible to train them to go off lead and recall even though they are a harder breed to train.
I wasn’t trying to suggest letting him off the lead now. Recall training starts on the lead. You pick the word you want to use. In the beginning, I usually start with just standing and waiting for some interest in me, saying the word then praising. Just pairing it. Later on you can give the lead attached to his collar a quick, firm, but gentle tug and say the word. It is like saying paying attention. Then you can just use the word without the tug. And when he recalls reliably on the regular lead some people get a very long training lead. So they can go further away and practice coming back from a larger distance safely.
Some people use treats. I don’t like to. I trained huskies before with treats and in my opinion it makes recall unreliable. It takes more time to do it without treats. I hear that beagles can be the same way. Difficult like huskies.
I read that for beagles they should practice self control exercises to help with training. Maybe co-pilot would have some suggestions?
I really like teaching another command in addition. Looking at you. This is another one you can teach on lead too or even in the house. When he looks at you naturally pair the command and praise. Once okay with recall on a lead you can practice in the house too. 😊
It makes your life a lot easier for recall if your dog is currently paying attention to you. Having them look at you makes them move a little closer to you and pay attention. It’s less threatening because they are not being told to come back on lead all the time.
Sorry for the information dump. I hope it’s helpful. 🤍 🤍 🤍
AlessaParticipantHi Anita and Tommy
Well he didn’t have a fever yesterday, but he did have one today. I was at the hospital yesterday for hours. He wasn’t peeing and had low blood sugar. At first they tried to send me home with him without doing anything before he was a bit more stable. I refused to leave. After he puked in the cafeteria they gave him some anti-nausea medicine and actually helped me to learn how to take care of him when he is this weak.
He’s still weak, but keeping some food down now. And now I know how to handle the low blood sugar in the mornings when they haven’t eaten much. Since he wouldn’t drink this morning. I had to syringe juice with electrolytes into his mouth for hours. If he’s not being sick, I think I can do it a bit faster tomorrow since he’s keeping things down today.
Thank you both for keeping me company and for your kindness, whilst I was worrying about him. 🩵 🤍
I still hope that maybe he will feel better tomorrow. 🤍 🩵
AlessaParticipantHi Anita and Tommy
My son got worse again. Stopped keeping milk down. Stopped keeping food down and he’s very weak. Has barely moved all day. Took half of the day but he’s keeping juice down now.
Thanks so much for thinking of him. It means a lot to me. 🤍 🩵
I’m well enough now, just a bit tired. It has been days of not eating much, not sleeping well for both of us.
I hope he feels a bit better tomorrow. If not back to the doctor or the hospital again.
It was scary seeing him not moving all day for the first time since he was a newborn. He’s such an active boy usually. A newborn doesn’t move very much in the first place. It’s not a massive shock to see them like that. But with him being so active. It’s scary to see him sleeping all the time. Even during the days he had a fever he was still walking around at home and playing with toys.
It’s hard that I don’t have a mother to turn to when he is sick because he is my first and I don’t really know what I’m doing. I only know how to deal with the stuff I’ve dealt with so far. Every now and again something new crops up and I don’t know what to do. I feel like I’m failing him.
Thanks so much for the advice Tommy. 🩵
AlessaParticipantDear Anita
Thanks so much for thinking of us! It’s very kind of you. 🤍
He had quite a high fever but it broke last night. Now I have it. I’m afraid that I’ve not been up to much. 🤍
Thinking of you too! And Bogart!
Recall is where you train the dog to come to you when you call them. I don’t know what the leash laws are like in your area but in the UK if your dog listens to your commands well you can walk it without being on a leash.
Obviously near busy roads it is still important to be on a leash for its own safety.
And I was just referring to the story. 😊
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