Hello anita,

he does respond eventually, albeit a lot of the time at least 5 or 7 hours later. He doesn’t leave me on hold until I text him again is what I mean. But he just carries on the conversation, sometimes saying “sorry”. Is that still kind of showing he doesn’t care even though he does respond eventually?

I do see what you’re saying though, that he doesn’t care because of the whole date thing, and that does stick with me because to this, I really don’t see any way around that other than what you said. Maybe he does have his reasons, maybe he’s thinking that I should plan a date if I want one rather than just saying I want one and waiting for it to happen, which I feel like is normal?

I do plan on talking to him again about everything, the communication and date situation, because assuming why he’s doing this is never good for any relationship. But how many times do you think is too many times to have to bring something up that bothers me, especially if that is just how he is by nature because he tells me it happens with his family and friends as well.

Thank you for your response

ali