Thank you so much Anita for your reply. You are right, how I will I know If I’m still the beneficiary and he can change it anytime without my knowledge especially when he gets upset to me.
I asked him to put my name as co-owner of the house and he doesn’t want to do it. He, said Never, I will do it. So I’m thinking why he make me as beneficiary of all the things he owned and then doesn’t want me to be a co-owner. Is he playing games with me? I helped him a lot for 7 years to pay the mortgage and now is paid. I want to be a co=owner so he don’t asked me to get out or F-off when he upset to me. There is no guarantee too that I will get his property, how about if I go first. We don’t know.
I’m mentally and physically tired. This has been going on for so long. I cannot depend myself to him when we are in discussion. I get nervous and frustrated right away. I wrote a letter and give to him to read, he just read some of it. I asked two financial advisor already and with my contributions and income.
Anita, I have no family here in Canada and nobody to turn too. My job is not easy and I don’t know if I can make it till 65. He said he will take care of me. Right now, I don’t know what to do to go back to him or live on my own and see what will happen.