Hi

I was in the same situation with my ex boyfriend. We were together for 2 years and in the end i ended the relationship as i felt that i was more his therapist rather than his gf. Our relationship was based more the fact i was trying to repair something that i couldn’t fix and that i had to admit to myself only he could help himself out.
It’s probably not what you want to hear but if he already said to you that he wasn’t ready to let go but at the same time he doesn’t want to be alone and therefore i’m afraid that’s what you are. He may love you but it’s not the love you want or deserve. I learnt that the hard way. But my ex and i are now good friends and i have found someone else.
As much as you want to fix this, it’s a situation that cannot be fix when your bf already told you how he feels…