I came across this forum after doing a google search because I have been go through apractically identical situation and feelings. All of the responses here immediately started making sense to me. I don’t want to lose my new relationship and I have this strong feeling that if I don’t get my head on straight, that is what will happen. This guy doesn’t deserve for me to hurt him, and I think it really would hurt him if he knew that I’ve been missing my ex. It would be so confusing for him because he is aware of how tumultuous that relationship was. He is everything I’ve wanted, and been looking for in a relationship, and now I can’t get this screwed up ex of mine out of my head suddenly. I feel like my current bf is going to start, if he hasn’t already, picking up on something different coming from me and I really want it to stop. I’m so glad I found this forum. I am.going to finish reading all of the thoughts and ideas in the replies to the original post. I’m going to try to take one piece of advice and use it today, as a step forward.