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  • in reply to: Some help wud be nice! #109827
    STella
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    Hey intothestillness
    Thank u soo much. You’re right. I shouldn’t like “hurt him more than necessary”.
    I guess I wudnt have thought of him if he hadn’t called. When the sudden call came, it just reminds u this person exists and u can’t pretend everything’s fine.

    You’ve told me exactly what I need to hear. 🙂
    I’ll let myself go with the flow and not dwell on my emotions.

    in reply to: Some help wud be nice! #109723
    STella
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    Sure Anita.
    To keep it simple…he was my best friend and then like stuff happened. We never really defined the relationship.
    I liked him a lot. But I knew he wasn’t the kind of guy I’d spend the rest of my life with. So instead of giving him false hope, I thought deleting him out of my life will clear it up (I’ve tried telling him that I only see him as a friend…but we end up going in circles)
    It was hard since we knew each for over a year. [Also he was my best friend] I did what I didn’t want to do. I guess that’s why I regret it so much….loosing someone u REALLY care about.

    And the trigger being the wretched phone call. I’m in a mess of emotions..I wanna go back..but I don’t want to either.

    in reply to: Some help wud be nice! #109722
    STella
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    Wow u guys are really great!
    Actually he called me (which I ignored becoz obviously I’m trying to move on)
    And its resurfacing all the memories I’m trying to bury.
    Whats the best way of handling this….and let myself truly get over it. Any suggestions?

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