Yes I completely agree with you, and I’ve told him that, but I’ll keep you posted

Dear Anita, thank you, I am too, and I replied to him casually last night, where he doesn’t have to respond back. I definitely will keep at at. 🙂 its so nice to have someone to talk to, thank you reading and taking the time to respond to me I appreciate it highly.

Hello Anita.

So yesterday morning I asked him to not contact me until I contact him because I need some time and space, and he said its fine, I must take the time that I need, then he sent me a message last night saying ” Been 1 of the hardest days not messaging you when i leave work or get home or anything at all… im sorry if this message is out of line but i just wanted to say good night and i hope you sleep tight. Have sweet dream🤗” anyway just ought I’d share.

It’s ok, I’ll be fine thank you though, and I hear you. I’ll go cold turkey. Wish me luck

Dear Anita, he has given up on me, I don’t think there’s a chance..💔 but I never contributed to the fact that he feels like a disappointment nor pressured him, and I wasn’t at all unfair I was more accommodating to him and gave him advice on how things he’s dealing with at home.

Thank you for response. He says his dealing with things at home so when he his with his friends he drinks himself past his point and gets home late but its not every day or weekend then they scold him for that but that’s basically what he mentioned to me, I didn’t mention me being disappointed I just asked him when his going to change his ways, and saying his not ready to make a commitment to me that I need, which I didn’t mention anything to him about, his parents are mad over me and me them, I have a 2 year son and my guy was happy to accept and love him as his own, he parents were fine with that all along and now his giving me that excuse saying his dad can’t get over the fact that I have a child, and when they found out his dad said it’s his choice they can’t say anything and that’s why things at home aren’t pleasant all of sudden, I have a good relationship with his parents do you think I should have a chat to his dad just to ask him about this?