yes anita. I don’t know if m doing right or wrong. Maybe if i start to feel better about myself, it will effect positive on my relationship as well. Is it possible ??

Dear anita, I started listening to some positive affirmations for self-love.
If you would suggest me some other things I should practice to feel better, I would be grateful to you.

Why I m stuck ??? why I can’t get over him 🙁 I am just feeling so exhausted

Yesterday he abused me again and i cut the call. Now he is calling me should i forgive him and talk to him again or should i not attend the call ?

if i try to tell my closed friends about my problems i feel like they will think that there would be some fault in me, that’s why i am treated so badly by my loved ones or by my sister.

Everyone will think that there is problem in me, i am at fault. This is the reason i don’t feel confident in sharing my thoughts and feelings with anyone.

the first man was not abusive but he was screaming while get anger and blames me for everything, he really stopped caring for me. He always used to said that you are weak person. He always tried to discourage me whether in studies or job. Whatever i tried to do something, he always made me felt that i can’t do anything. He left me by saying that “he didn’t feel happy with me anymore and he only feels happy when he thinks of his Ex girlfriend”.
It really hurt me, as he was in a relationship with me for 2 years and suddenly his feelings were changed (surprisingly) It was tough for me to believe, but he broke up with me. after few days ago, I called him and asked him to be friends and he said Okay. i burst into tears and told him that i want him to come back. He got anger and said “Just get lost, you’ve ruined my life, i am taking drugs because of you. You are responsible for all this”. I was scared, i turned off my phone. At that moment, i heard a voice inside my head that “He is lying,you can’t be a reason for all this, you can’t ruin someone’s life like that, you were not there when he was taking drug you didn’t forced him either”. I stopped crying and after that i deleted his pics, his contact number and everything which could ever remind me of him. I threw all the things and burnt those papers on which i wrote my true feelings for him. I promised myself not to ever accept that person in my life again. He also never came back.

But now my current partner has just started using abusive language. that’s really hurtful. sometimes i feel like if i leave him he will never ever come back and he will never realize that his behavior was hurtful for me every time he get anger or use abusive language.
He never accepts his mistakes. (i feel that he also stopped caring, i really feel hurtful. God! I don’t know what to say what to do) should i leave him or not ? Can’t bear to lose my love again.

If they get angry on me or get irritates from me, all of these emotions makes me feel so bad and i start crying

When i cry or crying hysterically, i had thoughts in my mind like “Why is he hurting me? How anybody who loves other person could give them so much pain? Why only i had to bear all blame? Why only i have to accept it that i am responsible for every mistake?”

During these situations, If i express my true feelings to him, he gets more irritate, which hurts me a lot.

I don’t know what to do ? Is there any fault in me? Am i the only one who understands that nobody is perfect,we have to compromise with other person. Why not anybody else understands this?

Again crying . i don’t know how to recover myself, i can’t even share my feelings and thoughts with anyone because nobody understands me. Everyone says the same thing to leave that person.

• This reply was modified 7 years, 7 months ago by Anya.

Dear anita.Overly sensitive means that i cry all the time histerically in front of him
and he was getting mad on it.

Now the same case with my current partner.