I will. I did this a couple of years after she had passed. She spent the first two years in our house. She was brought in by someone of significance to see that her children were ok ( she left them with a friend the night of) and they all have mental health issues they were born with so she came to see them and her ex. She spent a lot of time playing. not with the kids but by herself. She would be seen sitting on the floor colouring and drawing and playing with toys or reading. There was nothing I could do and was made to leave her for a while. I then noticed she wasn’t here any more so did what you have suggested and wished her well. That was the end of it. Or so I thought. I have also done the second thing you suggested but didn’t realise I would need to do it again. So I will. Spent the day ‘cleaning house’ and will continue with the other when the children go to bed.
Thank you again.. I mean that in a bigger way than how it sounds. Hope we speak again. Deirdre

The Ruminant.
I appreciate what you gave me. Based on the ramblings of a crazy woman I re-read what I wrote this morning and can see how it came across. I wasn’t tantruming about not being happy, I was tantruming about how I start something and I get a hefty roadblock come and stop me from what I am doing, no matter the subject and if I try and ignore the roadblock and soldier on it becomes bigger. My question was, why does this always happen and how does one stop it. It’s getting pretty tiresome and for once I would like to start something I put my heart into and actually complete it. There, that might be better. I found this site and due to not having anyone to ask in relation to this tantrum I crossed my fingers and just started typing. So, thank you so much for your help, it was extremely correct. Much loves to you.