Hello Shelby, I would be more than glad to help you with your problem. I don’t know if you wanted advice or input but all i can really tell you is to be there for your daughter and let her know that she doesn’t need anyone who belittles her. Let her know that she is better than that and if things get out of hand i do think you should disregard your daughters request to not go to the police. Domestic abuse is not something to sit back and watch i do think you should talk to her about it, take action before (God forbid) but before things get out of hand. maybe have her block him on all social media’s and his number. make sure they have little to no contact with each other. just be there for your daughter. i know easier said than done, but im extremely sorry and wish you the best of luck.