Hi Anita!

Thank you so much for taking your time to read my problem and reply. Regarding to my boyfriend, both of us are in the last year of college so the plan was to move in together in my country when we finish but there is nothing sure about that… for some months we pass through a difficult crisis so I try to not make so many plans because I don’t know what will happen with us.

Regarding to my friends, my best friend was in love with a guy but unfortunately he felt in love with me. I told him that I love my boyfriend and I don’t feel anything for him but my best friend got paranoid and jelous and she prohibited us to talk. The guy got upset and he stopped talking with her so because I was feeling guilty (even though I didn’t do anything with him) I spoke with him with to try to reconcile them. I was afraid to tell her that we spoke because she is so paranoid that I thought that she will again think bad. I don’t know how, she discovered that we spoke and as you can imagine she thought bad.She doesn’t want to see me, I wrote to her an email explaining the situation but she simply doesn’t belive me. Because of that she started to invent things about me and she turned everyone against me so nowadays no one wants to speak with me. They deleted me from the social medias and even though I try to defend myself it is useless. I know that it wasn’t correct hiding her the truth but the way how she behaved is just not fair because I just wanted to help. I love my boyfriend and I would never do anything bad to him. For me this situation is just typically for teenagers…I expected another reaction from someone who is 24. She just throw away 10 years of friendship even though during all this years I was loyal to her.

This is my story with my friends. Thank you again for your time Anita :)It feels a little bit better to vent my sorrows with someone.