Thanks. I am more afraid of when the baby comes out. The father will force himself to be around while making up excuses of why he can ex’t afford to give me money. He wants to take him to his religion. While I would want my child to see his father, I do not want him being raised under the hate that my ex-husband tends to have. Its more about the father’s negative influence (religion) on the child. I dont think I can control that and raise a child on my own.