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  • #122921
    Anon
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    Dear Brav3
    Thats a very well written post breakup advice. Thank you.
    You mentioned in #2 about No contact.
    I completely agree with you in theory, although I get incredible urges to stalk my ex on Facebook. I try so hard to suppress it. One part of wants to know what he is upto.
    How does one restrain oneself from such triggers?
    Love <3

    #122703
    Anon
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    Reality check Anita! Great question. Made me realise why he was alright. Probably knew the ship was sinking..he couldn’t save it now even if he tried.
    Thanks for ur reply.

    #122702
    Anon
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    Thank you for the guys perspective Kyle!
    Incidentally, mine was a long distance as well.
    I didn’t do it to test him. I just thought that space grew between us…There’s not much personal connection u can have only on texts and video calls. The stress of trying to make it work got to me. He was absolutely okay…But I’d freak out if we had a call with awkward silences, I’d do everything I could to keep him constantly interested and I just didn’t have that much energy anymore. After he moved of to a different state everything changed.
    Once I started getting interested in the guys around me, rather than the guy who lives 24/7 in my phone…that’s why I decided to break it off. I really did love him though. So when he decided not to have any sort of closure or response to my suggestion of breaking things off…it caught me off-guard.

    What you said makes sense. Thank u again. I’m glad he respects me as a woman capable of making decisions. My mind can now heal and try to move on 🙂

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