The similar type of incident I have had recently and I donno how I am going to overcome. This case the guy whom I met last year told that he will marry me always acted like my husband. I too felt like I have found my soul mate. He is from India. and I am from neighboring country to them. And I came to Melbourne for my studies when I first met him. I clearly stated him begining that I not in age of play around looking for a serious relationship. This guy also told he is also need to settle down and he doesn’t like his parent’s proposals. I never being with a guy before (physically) as I was raised in a culture with strict rules. But he was so mad in love with me and then after 2 months when I told him that better we tell our parents he started change. I realized he has lied to me and just pretended. In my gut feeling said this guy is cheating, but I didn’t want to believe it cos this was the first time I being with a guy for so long and I always wanted to marry him. Then I found that he doesn’t care me and went partying , casino’s to hurt me. may be I felt like he wants to get out of me. My friends also told me normally guys will marry somebody from their culture and hardly get married to someone from another culture. But if he knew this why he started it all? gave me such promises ? I found somethings he told me is all lies..I was mentally so down. Then I found his msges with another girl and I really got pissed that time and slapped him. and we had sort of break up, several times he tried to called me but I refused as I knew he would lie me again.I can’t believe how much of promises /hopes he has given to me. I came to Melbourne to fulfill my higher studies and I was very active in community services. But after this incident I am morally so down. And Last month he had published that he got married to another girl same culture all of sudden. I really don’t know how fast people change. though I didn’t speak with him I had a feeling that he might return and we could start but I was wrong. Now I am almost devastated. It is the most painful thing that realize that you being used by somebody. The person must be now happily married after causing lot of pain. Don’t even bothered to care whom he was with last year and given marriage promises. For them it is a game playing with other’s lives. But its whom the sensitive people suffer for life time what caused by them…