i completely agree with amarettoreveries one billion percent right . think about it

yup i don’t see any strong reason for breakup

yup i have been to similar position . over the time i understood that its better to keep myself less attached to someone . because this shit hurt AF . I was honest and did whatever i can to make it right . still people deceived me. badluck for me but personally it made so strong emotionally . now i can acknowledge my feeling so deep that i understand why i am feeling happy . why i am sad . i can easily see horse shit . over all it made me wiser . i am 100 % sure if i find someone who is putting herself out for me i will totally respect it and i will stand right to her no matter what . because she would so much precious to me .it took whole lot of shit experience to get to her .

hey dreaming since you are using dating app you should make your point very clear that i am looking for long term relationship if you are not up for that please don’t waste my time and yours . I also used dating app many girls deceived me too .but i never blamed all the women on the earth . yes toll of dating app is heavy the moment people find better they just go for new one . since people don’t know each other and they less care about time and emotion invested . so in dating apps are fast food of relationship .but they don’t understand the fact that its relationship it require whole lot of efforts its not an job application where you get more salary you just hop on . it depends on what actually you want out of it . keep patience keep looking if tired give it break than try again . try change if u did some mistake from previous one . and hope for best.

hey sensitiveandtrying:
i think u should slow down a bit and allow time to solve your problem .
you should savor what you have ,some people might not even have what connection u have found .
relationship is hard work . it requires lot of patience to build . if you are not up for that and think you can get better (deserve better)
with someone else than u should let go (it comes with risk and burning bridges). but you never know you might face same problem with new one .
the ways guys think and girls think it completely different .because biologically we are different .
i strongly believe in relationship we should always consider relationship is to give whatever we get out of it is bonus(that should be mindset).
i do understand your point to solve issue permanently once for all by talking it out . but he doesn’t feel the same way he doesn’t think its as important at all. so you will not meet at same point because both of you are running parallel.
hope third person perspective helps
sensitiveeeeee and tryiiiiiingg

life is an adventure ,better know how to roll

you won’t be crazy cat lady for sure . do ur medicine ,eat right food ,sleep ,work,laugh when u can and chill . don’t over think which u r doing right now.

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