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    I would agree. I think she feels inadequate in every situation and was always comparing her portrayal of herself with what she thought the ideal was. I’m not sure what this means. Is there a chance she may find confidence in herself and realise I was good for her or is this just wishful thinking?

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    Hi Helcat,

    Thank you for replying. I recognize I am selfless and still think about her feelings than my own. I’m going through ups and downs as expected I feel. Sometimes I feel focused on myself and can take positives from our relationship and look ahead and other times I start to wonder what if and whether she will reach out. I think I should stop holding onto hope but I still do at the moment, which sounds silly given she ended it and I need to accept that.

    I agree, I think she was very anxious but unwilling to share these with other people apart from me. She would often put on a facade in public and come home and I’d support her and check she was ok.

    It was hard her saying I was too good for her and she didn’t deserve me as I thought she deserved everything and more.

     

    #404049
    Cal
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    Hi Anita,

    Thank you for replying. She has messaged once apologising if she was awkward around me after we saw each other at a mutual friend’s party but I was conflicted what to say.

    She said to me she was worried she didn’t get on with her friends and they thought she was always a negative influence on their lives.

    I’m still conflicted what this all means but appreciate I may never know.

     

     

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