Hi Lisa,
Sounds like good advice.  It is not easy for me to not go after her, because I don’t want to lose the relationship.  I suppose I have to acknowledge that it takes two people to be in a relationship.  She has to decide what I mean to her.  I will do my best to focus on myself and my life right now.  Can’t say it is easy.  But I will do my best.
Thanks for the advice.
Mahesh