Yes, I did. Most of them I don’t do anymore. Yet it feels sort of strange to quit doing these things, as when i talk with friends they have absolutely no problem doing these things. However, maybe I should just accept that these things don’t work out for me while in a relationship

Hi Anita,

Yes, I quit that behaviour as soon as I saw my wrongdoing. Never have any intend of doing it again and I regret is so much. Regarding your other question: my girlfriend of course likes me to be open with things I struggle with. However, as this can be a sensitive subject for us, it is sometimes hard. One time she said she couldn’t help me with some things I struggle with as it was too hard for her and would make her feel insecure. Also, some of the things that I feel I have to confess other people might not want to confess or feel that they have to. I think I feel ‘over guilty’ about some aspects of me and I am afraid I’ll hurt my girlfriend.