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CwParticipantHi eliana
just responded him via another app tht he reached me out n said tht i m immature n unfair to him for disappearing… tht im tired of his behaviour not being flaky n this is not i can put up wif or compromise just to keep him wif me n to “maintain” the relationship… i can recall the old days tht even we were apart but we had never lose contact wif each other…
anyhow im flying out of the town tmr which he suppose to come back… i need to move on n retain my energy for myself… i was out of a poisonous relationship end 2015( i was almost married wif another guy) n it took me 2 yrs to get out of it… I wouldnt wish to replicate another relationship like this tht this pain can almost destroy me…
thank you so muchhhh for helping me out of it n have a lovely evening
cw
CwParticipanthi eliana
thanks for your words and yes, this is exactly how i feel. He is saying tht he wants a long term stable relationship and we need to strengthen the communication, and on the other hand he is just not acting this way. Action is always a better proof than wt is said, and yes i do want to trust all these sugar coated words, but yet he failed to prove it and im tired in getting him a reason for it.
indeed i am uncertain whether I should close the door n let him open (but then i keep hoping for sth gonna happen),or i shd simply lock the door then we can go separate ways. I blocked him on wtsapp but got a msg fm him on the other channel, asking for a call. I have no idea wt to respond as it appears to be rude for not replying, but im afraid of getting hurt n putting on hopes, and also think tht if he wants to call he can just call than “test” my response.
not sure wt to do…
thanksssss
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CwParticipantHi Anita
i know not everybody can give u instant reply on wtsapp or maybe he just didnt see it… but be frank he is just the one who is always has his phone on hand and keep refreshing msgs fb ig etc….
need to be honest n not to get him excuses… bu myself
best
cw
CwParticipantHi inky,
i blocked his wtsapp as its a pain for waiting his reply… esp i saw hes online
fb… i didnt unfriend him but i block the msg function…
yes u r true if he wanna reach me out he can call anytime.. its done just to make myself feel comfortable n better if i know via these channels there wont be anything fm him…
i need to get myself away fm him a bit as im sooo moody n sad these days
Cheers
Cw
CwParticipantHi Anita
thanks for your words… before tht we had a discussion just few days ago and we both agreed tht we hv to talk more… and communicate… i know he is home now that could be very busy… but doesnt logic that he cannot even spare 1 min to tell me hes busy and will call back… i used not to text time that often but waiting for a reply is like life-long … and i know he is just obsessed with wtsapp…
I know tht blocking means tht we r heading to the end but i need to close the loop… having the door open hoping his return is destructive…
love
cw
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